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Sunday, May 11th 2008

10:24 PM

The Random Moments of Life

Seen in church on Sunday: A man wearing a blue-and-white seersucker suit. It looked good on him, too.

Heard in church: If you have a belly-button, you have a mother.

At the art store: Brad and Angelina probably are not stopping by here for lunch today.

At drinks on Friday: I heard Brad & Angelina bought the place on Section Street, down from Page & Palette.

Seen at Ed's Shed: Coleslaw and crackers served  as an appetizer.

Heard at the photo shoot: I'm going to come by that writers cottage. I want to know if it's true that you write in the buff.

What I haven't seen: blue jeans. eyebrow studs. nose studs. tongue rings. people wearing black.

Number of Books Joyce Meyer actually did sell in town: 700

Comment from one of her handlers: Look at that rock on her finger

Weather: Always good, except when its storming.

Best place to get turnip greens: Ed's Shed

Best iced tea: Julwyns.

Time my Pilates class starts on Monday: 9 a.m.

Time to take the Tylenol: 8:30 a.m.

What I'm reading: Mockingbird. With the Old Breed. A Place Called Wiregrass. Looking for God.

What I'm writing: Chapter 14.

Big News: Sister Linda is flying in later this month.

Quote from her: I will miss my bed, my own cooking.

Solution: You can cook while you're here. I won't stop you. I certainly won't be cooking for you.

 

 

 

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Sunday, May 11th 2008

2:36 PM

Mothers of another generation

 

So here we are back to that widely-held idea that writers lead these wildly glamorous lives. I mean I ain't complaining. I'd rather do this than serve up Dilly bars at DQ. But it's Mothers Day and I'm alone, save for a dog that doesn't even know my name.

I went to the early service at church today. Enjoyed it very much because it was held in the chapel. The minister gave a very good message about anxiety -- the very subject of my upcoming book. And if you haven't read what others are saying about it yet, you should check out my homepage -- heromama.org. Yes. A shameless plug.

So after church I planned myself an excursion that did not include noisy restaurants or coffee bars. Me & Jackson went in search of Magnolia Cemetery in Mobile. I read about the cemetery in John Sledge's book Cities of Silences. A beautiful book that includes a lot of local history.

One of the most difficult aspects of living out west for me is I ain't got any dead kin there. On Memorial Day there is no one to memorialize. There's no graves to tend. No one to take flowers to.

What makes me southern in ways that my children aren't is my connection to the traditions of the south. Westerners don't care for the dead the way a southerner does.

And their graveyards reflect that.

You will not find ornate statuary in the graveyards of the West. They are much too practical for such affairs. They are minimalist when it comes to the graves. Just a slab of stone in the ground, etched here and there. Maybe one of those new fangled photos lasered into a headstone. That's about as done up as they get when they go down under.

I have always loved roaming the cemeteries. My mama says I get that from her. She used to roam them too.

The other thing I've notices is that Sundays down south are still all about MeeMaw. Everyone spends their Sundays going to visit MeeMaw, Nana, or Granny. Nobody talks much about Poppy. And they don't have to have any special holiday to do that. It's just a given. Everybody still talks about their mamas.

Skip Jones was at church with his mother today. Going to church with her once a month was his Christmas gift to her. What a lovely gesture. She looked pleased to have her son with her.

I found Magnolia Cemetery with the help my new trusty GPS. It worked great. I parked under a shady oak, got out and walked for a few feet when I discovered I was in the Jewish cemetery. Yes. Still segregated here in the south. Only now it's more out of tradition than racism. That's where the family plot happens to be.

After some wandering around I found some of the images that Sledge talks about in his book. Here's a looky see:

 

I love the expressions on these girls. One died at a year. The other at 4, I think. I'm not sure but it may have been Typhoid fever. A trip through Magnolia on Mothers Day is a sobering reminder of how many mothers spent their Mothers Days grieving for children dead and gone.

 

Sadly I think this may be a mirror of what my thighs look like from behind. I love the feet though. The way one foot is crossed behind the other. And the broken wing. That's the kind of angel I'll be -- the one with the broken wing. Wonder where do angels go to heal theri broken wings?

I loved this vision of the angel writing in her own book.

Loved so dearly, lost so early. Such was the inscription on this grieving mother, for her little Rubie. If you look closely the stains look like tears.

There is a song on a CD I bought, a prayer of sorts, for an old angel. One who knows their way around heaven. One like this old gal I suppose. That's the sort of angel I need. One that commands attention.

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Sunday, May 11th 2008

8:34 AM

Friends who carry us

There is a story in Exodus about how friends came alongside Moses and helped lift his hands to the heaven after his arms grew weary in prayer. As long as Moses prayed with his arms outstretched the Israelites won the battle. But with the noonday sun beating down on his bald head and the force of gravity draining the blood from his arms, Moses grew weary, and his arms began to weaken. Then his good buddies came alongside him to help.

Exodus 17: 12 When Moses' hands grew tired, they took a stone and put it under him and he sat on it. Aaron and Hur held his hands up—one on one side, one on the other—so that his hands remained steady till sunset.

I love that story because it teaches us the humanity of ourselves and of others. Recently another such  event took place in the dusty college town of Ellensburg, Wash. Tyler Lobe, a student I taught last quarter, sent me the link, and a photo of himself with the friends in this story.

http://sports.espn.go.com/broadband/video/videopage?&brand=null&videoId=3380875&n8pe6c=2

 

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Saturday, May 10th 2008

10:06 PM

A lesson in History from a Mother

 

A Short HIstory of Mother's Day in the USA

I found this post over at The Rhetorical Situation blogspot.  I was going to write something about the  shennigans in Congress this week, but these folks did such a fine job of it, I thought I'd share these thoughts with you all. You'll have to read to the last paragraph.

http://therhetoricalsituation.blogspot.com/2008/05/short-history-of-mothers-day-in-usa.html

Mother's Day in the US begins after the Civil War as a protest against War in general. The "official" unofficial begins with Julia Ward Howe's "Mother's Day Proclamation" (1870).

Arise, then, women of this day! Arise, all women who have hearts, whether your baptism be that of water or tears!

Say firmly: "We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have taught them of charity, mercy and patience. We women of one country will be too tender of those of another to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."

From the bosom of the devastated earth, a voice goes up with our own. It says, "Disarm, Disarm!"

The sword of murder is not the balance of justice. Blood not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail & commemorate the dead. Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after his own time the sacred impress, not of Caesars but of God.

In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace.

Like most good social protests, the establishment stole the symbol of Mother's Day. In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the first official Mother's Day as a day "for American citizens to show the flag in honor of those mothers whose sons had died in war," which seems to counter the original purpose as this legitimizes war.

And now for something completely different:
Yesterday, the House attempted to pass a resolution to celebrate Mothers. This occurs all of the time at the state and federal level. For example, Sue Myrick honored The Nature Boy Rick Flair; Congress honored Islam; Congress honored the Discovery astronauts; Congress honored Mary Eliza Mahoney, America's first African-American Nurse. Usually, this is quick, feel-good legislative work that makes constituents feel better.

Yet, every once in a while, the minority party does something stupid like block one of these ceremonial pieces of legislation to ensure another goal. Since the Republicans delayed the vote on the ceremonial legislation there was not time to debate and discuss the mortgage relief and the war funding bills. This means that Republicans voted against Mothers to delay economic relief for the poor and middle class and to perpetuate the war. Good move!!! And they will be rewarded in the fall.
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Thursday, May 8th 2008

10:52 PM

Ed's Shed

I drove out to Ed's Shed on the causeway today to have lunch with Roy Hoffman and John Sledge. Roy and I met several years ago at Jacksonville's Much Ado About Books Festival. A terrific event where I was fortunate enough to meet many of the folks I still consider good friends. Roy wrote a book with one of the best titles ever -- Chicken Dreaming Corn. http://www.southernscribe.com/zine/authors/Hoffman_Roy.htm

Roy has the best hair of any writer I've met to date -- male or female. Great hair might be a sign of success. I think the rest of us tear ours out -- or each others.

Now Ed's Shed doesn't look like much from the causeway. The parking lot is gravel. There's standing pools of water. There were a dozen or so motorcycles in the parking lot. And a sign on the chalkboard declaring, "We serve comfort food."

They ain't bragging. Just telling the truth. I ate the best bowl of turnip greens I've ever eaten at Ed's. And the shrimp was big and fat and, praise Jesus, not overly fried. Just mmm, mmm, good.

Roy had called ahead of time and told me a little more about Sledge. I knew him as the book reviewer for the Mobile Press-Register, but not much else. Roy told me about Sledge's work, specifically his Cities of Silence, art book about Mobile's cemeteries. I marched straight out my back door to the library and sat down and read the book. If you love cemeteries, and I do, this is a compelling book. It opens with the story of Emma, a young girl who dropped dead during a game of softball with friends, when her young heart just give out. 

The photographs in Cities are a study in and of themselves. None are more heartbreaking that the one of Emma, laying still in death, her chestnut curls as lovely as if she was dressed for Easter Sunday. But there's that creepy photo of one of the Merry Widows, a mystic club in the region that visits the grave of a man named Cain, I believe, sometime shortly before Mardi Gras, carrying on continued grief for a man long dead. Like we ain't got enough to grieve over. We gotta be carrying on over someone we never knew. I am going to visit a couple of the graveyards that Sledge highlights in his book. The tombstones are works of art that I want to see for myself after reading Sledge's stories.

Roy also told me about Sledge's daddy, E.B. Sledge, who wrote one of the most defining books on WWII -- With the Old Breed. It has been regarded as one of the best pieces of war literature ever written. Here's a sample:

"Even at a distance Peleliu was ugly with the jagged ridges and shattered trees. Haney came up alongside me and leaned on the rail. He looked gloomily at the island and puffed a cigarette.

"Well, Haney, what did you think of Peleliu?" I asked. I really was curious what a veteran with a combat record that included some of the big battles of the Western Front during World War I thought of the first battle in which I had participated. I had nothing in my experience to make a comparison to Peleliu.

"Instead of the old salt comment -- something like "You think that was bad, you oughta been in the old Corps" -- Haney answered with an unexpected, "Boy, that was terrible! I ain't seen nothin' like it. I'm ready to go back to the States. I've had enough of that."

"A common misconception has it that the 'worst battle' to any man is the one he had been in himself. In view of Haney's comments, I concluded that Peleliu must have been as bad as I thought it was even though it was my first battle."  

                                                                       __________

We sat out on the deck, with the wind whipping the bay water like a pissed off Rachel Ray. John, smart boy that he is, wore an Oxford Square Books cap. But Roy and I had to contend with hair blowing everywhichaway, as we discussed World War II, Vietnam, & Iraq. We talked of writers and growing up and the politics of it all. Then we posed for a photo and parted ways. Good turnip greens and thoughtful conversation, what more could any person want in a day?

At Ed's Shed with John Sledge, and Roy Hoffman.

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Wednesday, May 7th 2008

7:45 AM

Blame

I just got back from taking Jackson (the black lab) for a walk. Jackson is a sweet dog, great disposition but left to his own vices, he would sleep all day long. If this dog got any more docile, he'd be comatose. So I'm trying to walk him a couple of miles a day.

Today we headed down to the pier where I met a lady who just moved here from Coco Beach, Florida. While we were visiting she got three phone calls -- "Sorry, it's my stockbroker," she said.

I never had a stockbroker. I wouldn't have a clue what to do with one. The only kind of stock we have in Eastern Oregon walks on four legs. Cattle. Horses. Dogs. That's the kind of stock I'm used to.

The kind that requires a shovel.

And some steel-toed boots.

I heard on NPR yesterday that a bunch of Wall Street folks could find themselves without a job soon. They said jobs in the financial market are sparse given the price of food and gasoline.

I understand that for many people, the kind of people who have stockbrokers, the 1980s were very good years. Time of growth. Not for me and Tim. I mean they were good years, but they were hard years too. Years when we didn't make enough $$ to pay a car payment, buy gasoline (when it was cheap) and had to rely on federal food programs to help feed our children.

We did what we could to scrap by. If it hadn't been for Tim's folks and my mother, it would have been a much more difficult time. They shared what they had -- which wasn't all that much.

To be honest, when we married we were pretty clueless about the finanical aspects of raising a family. We got by. With some grace and help from loved ones and strangers.

Now there would have been those who said we got what we deserved. Getting married during our senior year of college. Having too many babies too soon. We should have been smarter. Made our fortunes then raised a family. Only see, it never occurred to either us to be about making a fortune. Neither of us had grown up in households where people stockpiled money. Tim's parents, missionaries, gave away anything extra they had. My mama just did what she could to get by. They didn't have money to save for college -- ours or our children. They struggled to pay their own bills. Jus the same as Tim and I were doing.

It's the way of the millions of Americans. This getting by mentality.

Since those early years of marriage, I have rarely felt as though Tim and I or our children lacked for anything. We've traveled. We've eaten well -- too well at times. We've had the money to fix cars, and houses and put shoes on the kids. We didn't pay for their college education. I mean we started to, but then I quit that job and well, we just couldn't. But they got through college and all are gainfully employed, or working on being gainfully employed. I hate that they have loans they have to pay back but they are managing. Nobody is going hungry. Yet.

In other words, I feel very, very blessed. Not that God loves me more. Just that I'm thankful to Him for what we do have.  

Which is why this morning I was thinking I ought to get on a plane on fly to Myanmar. If only I could get into the country. I was in New Orleans 4 months after Katrina hit. I saw the devastation. It remains even to this day. It's awful. And it's awful to realize that here in the US of A we have abandoned our own people. If not for the churches and aid organizations that have come alone to assist the people of New Orleans, the situation would be so much worse.

I spoke to a woman last week whose son and daughter lost everything in Katrina. Everything but their lives. She told me she stood in the rubble of her son's home and wept at all he'd lost. "But we were thankful that nobody lost their lives."

It makes you put life into perspective, she added. Standing admist the rubble.

But, of course, hundreds did lose their lives in the midst of Katrina. And thousands more lost their lifestyles.

I sat at the pier this morning, trying to imagine what it must be like in Myranmar, where 25,000 maybe more have lost their lives. Hermiston is a town of 15,000. I try to imagine an entire city being wiped out. I recall the devastation that I saw at Fort Jackson and in the Ninth Ward and I mean it looked like something out of a end-time flick, so to think of 25,000 people killed and 40,000 homeless, well I just can't get my mind around that.

When I got back home, I read the following in the NYT:

"Mr. Bush’s called for openness from Myanmar a day after his wife, Laura, criticized the country’s military leaders for not warning people before the cyclone hit on Saturday.

In reply, Australia’s foreign minister, Stephen Smith, was among those who urged countries to focus on helping Myanmar instead of criticizing its government. “The priority now is rendering assistance to thousands of displaced people who urgently need our assistance,” Mr. Smith said in Hong Kong."

I don't know what Laura Bush said. I haven't looked it up yet. But I know how much crap I heard, continue to hear about Katrina and the problems in New Orleans, about how it's all their fault because their city officals are so dadgum incompetent, and they ought not live by the dadgum water to begin with, on and on.

Makes me sick to hear people talk like that.

I am often left wondering do we not care because these people are people of color? So they aren't like us?

They aren't as smart, as organized, as open-minded as us?

I can't get on a plane to Myranmar. They aren't granting Visas, yet. I'm not sure what I would do if I were there, except maybe hold somebody's hand and cry with them. I could do that. I'm good at that.

But, honestly, sometimes all we really need is somebody to do just that.

And the last thing we need is somebody telling us we're to blame for the bad things that happen to us.

For the cyclone that ripped through our country.

Or the hurricane that destroyed our city.

Or the marriage that fell apart.

Or the death of our child.

Or the friendship betrayed.

Blame is counterproductive to anything.

Blame doesn't solve anything. Doesn't cure anything. Doesn't heal anything. The only thing blames seems to do is to alleviate the guilt that maybe we ought to be feeling in the first place.

Guilt is productive, when addressed in the right way. If we feel guilty over hurting someone, we have the option to go seek their forgiveness. But if, instead, we blame them for our guilt, there's no reason to seek forgiveness and no reason to seek restoration.

Blaming the government of Myanmar for the devastation created by an act of nature accomplishes what?

How much better it would be if instead of blaming them, we simply continued to hold out a hand of mercy to them? And try to figure out how we can best help.

 

 

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Tuesday, May 6th 2008

6:25 PM

The celebrity life

My dance card has been very full lately. Saturday night, i was invited out to Winston & Ann Groom's house to meet some of their friends. Ann's mama was there. i loved her name -- Millicent Wren -- She goes by Wren. "Just like the bird," she said. Joining us was an elegant  sculptor from South America and a lovely gal who had been married to Winston's cousin. And the family dog -- a furry little thing that layed at the edge of the pool and watched the golfers just beyond it. i didn't have time to visit with everyone. Winston did share a bit about his time in Vietnam, but I had a 1,000 more questions to ask about that time. He also divulged his fertilizer secret -- cricket poop. i'm serious. He has bags of it in the garage. His daughter swears it chirps.

Today was hectic. We had a photo shoot out at Water Hole Branch for a magazine spread. Doug Crandall and the lovely Nancy drove in from Atlanta for it. Tito Perdue (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tito_Perdue) and his wife Judy  came from Montgomery area. The Mayor, Everett Capps, was there. Along with Suzie and Joe, and Frank Turner Hallon, whose book (April Pains) is being made into a movie starring Cybil Shepherd, and gosh who all else? Oh, yeah, Sonny Brewer, the fella behind Southern Writers Reading.

okay, forget this. joe and suzie's dog jumped on my laptop and knocked off the shift key to trying to capitalize just is slowing me down, so you'll have to deal with this lower case stuff.

like i was saying, it was hectic. there was this beautifully restored ford truck that we all climbed into to shoot the magazine spread, only i can't show you those pictures for fear of incurring the wrath of the magazine and the fire-spitting miz shari who orchestrated the entire affair. she's good at it but boy i'm telling you what, she could led marines into battle with a whistle.

today is also the year anniversary date of gordon wofford's brain bled. he called me this morning. i told him it was really remarkable how fer he's come in the past year. we weren't sure he'd ever leave the hospital and today he was out messing in that beloved garden of his. he doesn't remember most of what happened that day or the subsquent weeks he spent in the hospital. but we both agreed that we were thankful he's doing as well as he is today. he can't recall all the words he used to know, but he hasn't forgotten any of his stories. it's just more difficult to draw them out now. gordon ought to be made the mascot for the manchus. he really knows how to keep up the fire.

miz shelby asked me this morning how i got to be such a celebrity -- hob-nobbing with authors and artists and posing for photo shoots. i explained to her that it's a lot less glamorous than it sounds. and to prove my point, on tuesday nights a writers group meets at the center to critique one another's work. i sat in the first time but have been too busy to join them since. i did visit with the lot at the close of tonight's gathering. i was standing in the doorway, chatting with a couple of the fellas when another reached up from where he was sitting on the stoop and handed me his wine glass. i looked at him cockeyed, like what am i supposed to do with this, thinking of course that he would get the message that hey buddy i ain't the maid around this joint. but instead he continued to hold the glass out to me until he finally said hey this is your wine glass. i took it while the other two men stood by, mortified as me.

yeah. like i said being a celebrity ain't my thing. i look more like the hired help than i do a writer of merit. you can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl, i reckon.

Doug and Nancy at the photo shoot.

tito perdue, doug crandall, joe formichella

hillbilly feet. doug crandall cradles joe's right foot, deformed by a bad bunion. joe cuts the sides of his shoes to accomodate the bone growth. he won't have it removed, however, because he says it doesn't hurt.

the mayor of water hole branch's dirt devil.

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Sunday, May 4th 2008

3:26 AM

Please Consider


How to Spend Your Stimulus Check

Americans will receive checks from the federal government as part of a bipartisan initiative to stimulate the economy. Savvy retailers have been promoting special "tax rebate" sales, car discounts, summer trips, and just about everything else that can be pitched, marketed or sold -- all hoping to capitalize on the billions the U.S. Treasury is sending out to qualifying taxpayers.

But there's another option for spending the money that represents one of the best ways we can help this nation: Donate it to charitable organizations supporting our troops and their families.

This proposal is one that Americans all across the political spectrum should enthusiastically embrace. Many who oppose the war have criticized the Bush administration for not calling on Americans to sacrifice more to assist our men and women in uniform. Well, why wait for the president to ask? Let's just do it.

Those who advocated invading Iraq or who support staying there, particularly conservative talk show hosts and commentators, have expressed the need to show our troops that we're behind them. The stimulus checks present a perfect opportunity for citizens, pro-war or not, to give to worthy military- and veteran-related charities -- and to persuade others to do the same.

Congregations, civic organizations, fraternities, sororities and other groups could pool their money and adopt a local base, military hospital, Veterans Affairs medical center or homeless shelter for veterans. Now is the time to say, "What can we do to help?"

Americans nationwide have contributed time and money, but many of these individuals are themselves veterans or the family members of troops. They give because they are all too familiar with the hardships of military life. It is critical that those of us who are not a part of this community demonstrate our support as well.

There are countless ways to help our troops, from sending phone cards and care packages overseas to building homes for disabled veterans and providing scholarships for the children of service members killed in action.

The American Institute of Philanthropy, a nonpartisan organization that reports on how efficiently charities dispense their funds, has compiled an excellent list of first-rate nonprofits, including the Fisher House Foundation, Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund, Army Emergency Relief, the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society and the National Military Family Association. Many others can easily be found online.

About the same number of U.S. service members are fighting overseas today as were five years ago, when their heroism was regularly featured in the news. Today, though, when many soldiers, Marines, airmen and sailors are on their third or fourth deployments, and the burden on them and their loved ones has become even greater, our country seems increasingly apathetic about the conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Let's remind our troops and their families, through a surge in giving, that we have not forgotten their sacrifice. If even a tiny percentage of Americans make donations, millions of dollars could be raised. Bumper stickers and lapel pins are not enough. We cannot merely tell these extraordinary men and women how much we owe them for their service. It is time to show them.

The writer founded the Legacy Project at http://www.warletters.com and has edited the books "War Letters," "Behind the Lines" and "Operation Homecoming."

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Saturday, May 3rd 2008

11:33 AM

Monroeville, Ala

I drove up to Monroeville, Alabama on Thursday. Monroeville is home to Harper Lee. Alabama Southern was hosting the Alabama Writers Symposium. Patti Callahan Henry and Michael Morris were on the agenda. If you haven't read these authors, you should. Henry has been compared to Anne River Siddons and Michael has been compared to Harper Lee -- both are natural storytellers. More importantly, they are good, good people, and lawd, they are funny.

We ate pork for lunch, catfish for dinner. Patti & I threatened to heckle Michael from the front row, as he read from A Place Called Wireglass. Here's a tidbit that you won't find out from reading the book -- Miz Claudia's name was lifted from Lady Bird Johnson. Michael said it's her real name.

Kate Campbell, then took to the stage with her guitar: http://www.katecampbell.com/bio.html

Kate is very unassuming. Not a glamour girl. But I bought her Sing Me Out CD and it is so pure and the stories in the song captivating.

A superstar of sorts did follow  -- Beth Neilsen Chapman

http://bethnielsenchapman.blogspot.com/ 

You know the hit song This Kiss? Chapman wrote it. Chapman has a dramatic personal story that includes the death of a husband due to cancer, and her own struggle with cancer. But what left Morris, Henry and me slack-jawed was her insights about creativity. Here are a couple of her remarks that I wrote down:

"Loving someone is a creative art."

"We need to be an instrument for the arts to come into the world."

"Divine intervention is always looking for the place to show up next."

"Place your fears into the glove compartment. You keep them confined that way."

"Anything that involves expectation is coming from the thinking side of your brain, not the creating side."

Chapman is a person who has turned the discordant notes of life into beautiful harmony.

Patti introduced me to Ace Atkins, author of the hit Wicked City. And to one of my personal favorites -- Daniel Wallace, who wrote Big Fish. Don't know what happened to Ace but here's the group of us...

Morris, Chapman, Henry. Wallace and the poppy-clad, me.

Chapman on stage.

Listening to all that was pleasurable enough but after the catfish dinner Patti, Michael and I had tickets to the To  Kill A Mockingbird production on the square. The town puts on the play only for a short time period every May. It starts outside but then moves into the courtroom inside the courthouse. It looks exactly the same as when Gregory Peck filmed it. Patti and I sat behind the prosecutor's table, while Michael was pegged as a juror -- all men, all white. The choir sang out from the balcony. Scout and Jim and Dill called out their lines right above our heads.

The actors did a superb job. It was humbling to be in Monroeville, listening to Harper's words, thinking was an incredible talent she was, what courage she displayed in writing such a story, at such a time. Not a wasted word in the entire book. If you've not read the biography on Harper Lee, Mockingbird., do. Michael says it is really excellent. I plan to get a copy.

It is good as a writer to be reminded of how powerful the word can be -- how it can transcend time and place, from generation to generation. The townfolk say that Harper has had a stroke. That's she's in a home and not doing well. It occurred to me yesterday that as hard as we work, all of us, at whatever our jobs may be, in the end it comes down to that. A stroke. A fall. A heart attack. A cancer.

What matters most is how we use our time, our gifts, our efforts to create something that will transcend time and place, and carry a message from one generation to the next -- the way Harper Lee has done.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mz7jGDG8fM8&NR=1

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